• Childhood,  Play,  The Teen Years

    Did you ever win a stuffed animal at a county fair?

    County fairs are such fun, something both Ellen and Pam grew up with. They can be sensory overload for some with the rides, games, fair food, exhibits, tractor pulling, lots of noises, lights and smells. Some of our favorites are the Ferris wheel, fried dough and just people watching on the midway, but todays questions is – have you ever won a stuffed animal at one of these fairs? I have tried many times to win a plush at the local country fairs over the years. Many times. And I was successful just ONCE! I will never forget the thrill of the moment my hoop circled the pin.  The look…

  • Self Reflection

    Do you consider yourself a creature of habit?

    The first two definitions of the word HABIT in the Merriam Webster Dictionary are as follows: a settled tendency or usual manner of behaviorher habit of taking a morning walk an acquired mode of behavior that has become nearly or completely involuntarygot up early from force of habit Habits are something that we each of us can say we have in our lives. Our question this week is – Do you believe yourself to be a creature of habit? Funny, I do think that I am a creature of habit when it comes to certain things, more things the older I get, in fact.  I have attached certain things together…

  • Rites of Passage,  Self,  Self Reflection,  The Adult Years

    Were you upset when you first noticed signs of aging?

    We all age. We all experience different evidence of getting older. Our question today is were you upset when you saw the first signs of aging?  I think this ties in with a recent question we had about being vain. I do not have any particular feeling, good or bad, about the way my body/ face is looking as I age.  I take note of different things and joke about them; like being able to “tuck” my breast into my waistband but these things don’t trouble me.  I take them, wrinkles and all, as a expected part of getting older. The way my body performs however is an entirely different…

  • Childhood,  Self

    Do you tan or burn?

    The summer sun can be strong and unforgiving. When you get caught in it with no sunscreen – do you tan or burn? Being a fair skinned redhead, my answer to this is simple and short – BURN – BURN – BURN PEEL AND DO IT ALL OVER AGAIN As a child, and with fair skin, I was often found during the summer, laying on the couch with tea bags all over my sunburn, or aloe spread on the worst parts.  In my teens, the ‘norm’ was to bask in the sun with baby oil slathered all over.  Needless to say, that wasn’t a good alternative for me! Funny enough,…

  • Family,  Helping Others,  Play

    Celebrating October!

    Sometimes life throws you a curveball.  October threw us a month filled with THINGS. Ever have a month where you were so busy living that you lost track of all time? We took a deep breath and decided to pause our questions – they will return in the 2nd week of November. In the meantime, let us share with you some of those beautiful Things that happened in October. October 5th – Pam’s grandson drove up for a visit from North Carolina.  The last time we saw him was in June at his high school graduation.  He came up to see Pam’s seasonal getaway for the first time and to…